I spent last night in Berkeley and drove in from there to work in Palo Alto this morning. As I took the highway 84 exit. I realized that I would have to pay toll to cross the Dumbarton Bridge, and that I only had 1 dollar in my wallet (the toll is $4). A part of me thought that they would just let me pass, because would the seriously make me turn around and find an ATM and how does one turn around in a place like that anyway. So I just kept driving towards the toll and at the last second (literally the last exit off of 84 before the bridge) I took the exit and ended up in some random industrial/marshy place.
I pulled into some parking lot that looked promising (read wasn’t completely empty… and there were many of those) and before going to ask for the whereabouts of an atm, I decided to see how much change was in the car. I found $2.35, so including the dollar in my wallet, I only needed 65 cents to pay the toll. I went to the receptionist (actually security guard) and asked her if there was an atm nearby. She proceeded to give me directions and then asked my why I needed it. I answered truthfully (with minimal exaggeration) and then asked her if she had any change she could give me because I needed to get to work soon. Somehow the combination of my sob story, and my sincere frankness worked and she ended up giving me a dollar.
So, this is how you properly ask a stranger for money (from personal experience… because I have so much of it):
- Come off as desperate: present an intricate story that is both interesting and slightly humorous while not being to farfetched (it helps if the story is true…).
- Be subtle: demonstrate that you’re financially stable (lie if you have to). At the same time, make sure that they’re aware of your need. Take what I did, first ask for the location of an ATM (shows that I have money), but then ask if she could just give me a little change.
- Be friendly: Don’t antagonize your “customer,” it’ll just make them less likely to cooperate
- Don’t ask for a lot of money: you’ll be much more successful if you ask for change as opposed to asking for like hundreds of dollars obviously
On a more serious note. Some of these principles can be applied to entrepreneurship. Nobody wants to earn revenue purely from ads. If you could somehow convince people to pay you for your service, you could theoretically make a lot of money. So here’s how you do it (for simplicity lets say you have some website the offers some service):
- Be subtle: your site shouldn’t come off as desperate. Don’t make the sight glaringly about money, it should be something in the background that just gets done.
- Be friendly: Make your website really easy to use. Along those lines make it easy for people to pay you. If they have to jump through hoops just to pay, they won’t.
- Don’t ask for a lot of money: If I charge a lot for my service, then less people will want it. (simple economics. as price rises demand declines). This also depends on who your target audience is. If your targeting enterprise customers, you can charge much much more than if your targeting ordinary people
Anyway, this is turning into a pretty long rambling post about nothing really that interesting so I guess I’ll end it.